The situation was every leader’s worst nightmare: Archana Patchirajan, founder of an Indian technology startup, had to call her staff into a meeting and give them some devastating news. Due to financial woes, Archana would have to let them go. She could no longer afford to pay them.
When Archana delivered this message, she fully expected her team of engineers – all of whom were highly qualified and could have easily secured lucrative new positions – to express their regrets, then pack up and go home. But they didn’t. Instead, they told her they wanted to stay and were willing to work for just 50% of their original pay.
Humbled and grateful, Archana accepted their offer. Over the next few years the team worked so hard that the company, an internet advertising firm called Hubbl, sold for an astounding $14 million. What’s more, Archana’s team continues to work with her remotely on new projects today, even though many of them are now thousands of miles apart.
To many leaders, such loyalty sounds like a miracle. Upon closer examination, however, it quickly becomes clear that this event cannot be put down to chance or luck. Hubbl’s incredible resiliency was intrinsically tied to how Archana interacted with her team.
When a reporter for the Harvard Business Review interviewed various members of her team, each individual spoke of the connection they felt to their leader: “We all work as a family because she treats us as such,” said one. “She knows everyone in the office and has a personal relationship with each one of us,” said another.
The pattern was clear: Archana’s display of vulnerability during the staff meeting (openly admitting the business was imperiled and that she had no solution to offer) was not her first. She had spent years fostering emotional bonds with her team members.
While she was their leader, she made it clear that she was also their peer, eschewing a strict hierarchy and professional detachment in favour of a “person to person” style of interaction. By showing her weakness, she allowed her team the opportunity to be strong.
From vulnerability comes resilience
According to Brené Brown, an expert on social connection who has interviewed thousands of employees to find out what drives engagement and loyalty at work, Archana’s situation is more the rule than the exception. Strong social connection at work – and the resilience that comes with it – are a direct product of vulnerability.
At first, this may sound counter-intuitive. After all, many of us have been directly or indirectly punished for showing weakness within typically competitive corporate structures. But when an organisation’s culture is transformed to allow for open and authentic communication, as Archana’s team proved, sharing vulnerability can help pull companies back from the very brink of catastrophe. A connected organisation is a resilient organisation.
So, how do we radically alter workplace dynamics to facilitate the sharing of vulnerability? Experts suggest that we begin by casting aside the idea of projecting an “image” at work—we should instead simply be ourselves.
When we project an image of perpetual strength, we in effect prevent genuine resonance, and connection, from ever occurring.
When leaders show vulnerability, employees feel empowered. Their natural instincts—which involve a very strong and very human desire to help—kick in (thanks to resonance).
They begin to see themselves, and their organisations, in a fresh new light: They understand that they matter and they know they can make a difference. When given this opportunity, as Archana’s team demonstrated, most employees will rise to the occasion. As a result, the organisation as a whole becomes stronger and more adaptable.
Kamal Sarma is going to be speaking on Day 2 of the REIQ Summit, held on 14 & 15 March 2019 at the Royal International Convention & Exhibition Centre. Kamal will share his ideas about becoming agile in your thinking and communicating in new ways to transform results and relationships. Summit tickets are on sale now. Register at www.reiq.com/summit.